Social media is a fun way to keep in touch with people. When you share a story or photos on platforms such as Facebook, you allow your friends and family to see a little snapshot of your life. How much or how little you share is up to you.
You may be tempted to air your grievances about your spouse when you’re going through a divorce, but think twice before posting. Social media platforms have become a primary resource for investigating information about one’s spouse. This means that any content you share may impact the outcome of your divorce.
To share or not to share?
Emotional circumstances such as divorce may make you want to vent on Instagram, but that’s the last thing you should do. Here are some tips to help you decide whether or not to post something.
- Consider whether your post could be considered slanderous. Tearing your spouse apart on social media is never a good idea.
- Are you posting a knee-jerk response to something on your spouse’s page? If the answer is “yes,” think twice before posting.
- Remember that your spouse can see your posts. Do you want them to see something that you never intended to share with them? Changing your privacy settings and blocking or unfriending your spouse can help if you want to remain on social media during your divorce.
- Would you want your children to see what you’re posting? They may be too young for social media now, but they’ll be able to find it eventually.
You may decide to take a break from social media during the divorce. However, if you stay active, ask your friends not to tag you in images or posts. Remember that even with privacy settings, nothing you share is truly private. If you have questions about social media use during your divorce, seek assistance to guide you in the right direction.